2022.01.18 11:13 SonicReplayz Im guessing most here know shiv what y’all think about him quitting Bangalore
2022.01.18 11:13 thechickenmancommeth advice and encouragement to talk
So I have been in a dead bedroom relationship for too long than I would like to admit. I (M37) got married to the love of my life (F36) a while ago. During our engagement we had such a rocky time and long story short after a few years we went to see a counsellor who got it out of her that she was traumatised during the process ... the counsellor also got out of her that she she doesn't have sex because she sees it as a control mechanism because of the trauma she experience and that she had to move and subsequently hasn't been able to get a job while we have been married so she feels a distinct lack purpose/control of her own life.
I didn't take offence to that because I try to be sensitive to her feelings but what's ended up happening is that the lack of sex has created this deep friend zone dynamic and its basically after so long killed any sexual desire I have for her.
I want to tell her this but we have a bit of a communication issue mainly I tend to be the cool nice guy and she is the one with the hot temper. so when she goes nuclear I tend to back track to calm her down and I also end up feeling like the bad guy so I tend to get really insular and start to work on my own issues and think that I am the root of the problem (lol I obviously am to a certain degree but hey aren't we all fucked up in some way?)
I've gone through so much self help that I know im deserving of a committed, intimate and romantic relationship, where if I had to be honest I believed that I didn't deserve a sexual relationship for so long. like I honestly have lived in dynamics of conditional love for so long mainly rooted from how my parents treated me that when im in a conditional love relationship with wife I thought it was perfectly normal which only recently I realised wasn't correct. I dont want to be in the friend zone anymore and I dont want to feel like I have to jump through hoops to get love.
I'm kinda jumping on here because although I've gone through a lot of self help and developed a hell of a lot of self confidence. Like I lacked self worth, never believed anyone can love me and I generally didn't think I was attractive which are all ideas I've flipped around and I feel empowered in all these areas but when im around her I play into old paradigms of being this nervous, unattractive and useless person around her and I guess I need to advice and wisdom to tell help me stand up to her and tell her the truth. I find it so hard because apart from the sex stuff we do get on but I just can't keep walking down this path anymore. I need to put us both in a healing position whether we are together or not.
sorry if this isn't super clear so if you guys need to ask any questions please fire away :) I look forward to all your reponses.
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2022.01.18 11:13 BushidoBrown47 Ticket for AEW Dynamite on 1/19 in Washington DC
I'm unfortunately no longer able to attend the show, so i'm looking to sell a single ticket for AEW Dynamite next week on 1/19 in Washington DC for $80 - Section 102, Row B, Seat 12
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2022.01.18 11:13 Purpoh first heart kill after getting Ascension 20 on all characters. 497H total
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2022.01.18 11:13 middleman2308 I think this sub is slowly turning into AnarchyChess reposts... Anyway, was hoping Hikaru would see this
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2022.01.18 11:13 clash-talkingheads Shaggy vs Luigi
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